a few important things to know
My work focuses primarily on young adults between the ages of 20 and 35. We often run into tricky situations during this chapter of our early adult lives that test our self-care abilities during this age. Many people have their first years of marriage while working on a career and thinking about the future. You have to learn how to divide your limited energy between your job, partner or spouse, kids, and social life. Finding the right balance can sometimes be demanding, and young adults often get lost in the maze of the big imperfect world of maturity and the complexity of modern-day society.
As a young man in his 30’s, I’ve been through several of these stages of adulthood before I decided to be no longer part of the social expectations that didn’t fulfill my personal needs. Having seen both sides of the coin has led me to believe that I now have valuable experience and knowledge to guide you through this stage of life and help you live the best version of yourself.
It is essential to build a good understanding and strong bond with my coachee as a coach. As much as I would like to help and work with everyone who needs support, it is simply not possible to be a good match with every person or difficulty that requires attention. Hence, I try to focus my energy and effort mostly on individuals I believe would benefit most from my ways of coaching. Every problem is unique and requires a fitting solution. After our initial interview, we may decide to continue our journey together.
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What can a life-transition coach do for you?
I believe (and it is also scientifically proven) that a high-quality bond between coach and coachee makes for a significant increase in the chances of success during our sessions. Life experience and knowledge matter, but a strong connection between clients and their coach can make or break success.
Coaching is a comprehensive occupation in which we help people from all walks of life with various problems or challenges. Nowadays, we have business coaches, life coaches, diet coaches, relationship coaches, and, believe it or not, even sex coaches. Understandably, every one of these forms of care and guidance requires different methods and approaches. The methods I use as a personal growth coach are not very different from the techniques used by therapists, psychologists, and other distinguished mental health care professionals. However, I believe that my aim and angle of approaching my clients’ goals are different because instead of telling you what to do, I merely guide you in finding the answers yourself. Therefore, my coaching is not only about fixing a problem or improving your current situation. It also focuses on creating awareness and providing tools that enable you to tackle these challenges yourself if they occur again in the future. I do not believe one can achieve lasting change when the mindset and way of approaching problems remain unchanged. Therefore, I will teach you what you need so you don’t have to come back every time you run into similar challenging situations later in life. To change the way you think is to learn how to aim your mindset on self-improvement.
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Why would you work with a coach like me?
Coaching as a profession gained much popularity in recent years. The Covid pandemic and ever-growing demand for mental health care have led many to believe that their logical problem-solving skills automatically mean they are good coaches. Unfortunately, this often leads to coaches doing more damage to a client than they experienced before the course.
Coaching is not just about problem-solving and asking the right questions. A good coach has excellent conversational skills and can coach the problem and the person behind the problem. He can achieve long-lasting change in attitude and mindset in a short time. A good coach doesn’t judge anything you tell him and always tries to understand and respect your point of view. He does not lose sight of your coaching goals and tries to avoid pushing his agenda or intertwining his issues with yours. Everything your coach does should be about you and your road to personal development. I believe you have found a coach with those qualities here at Kinderkindz.com. Together we can work on a better future for you.
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What do I expect from you?
Now that you hopefully have a clearer picture of what you can expect from me, I will tell you what I expect should you decide to work with me. Change takes effort, your effort. I can tell and teach you many things, but nothing happens if you’re not willing to make an effort and put in the work. To achieve success during your growth process, we both have to give it our very best and aim for victory. You have to want it and work for it; your motivation makes all the difference.
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In case you need more information
I strive to provide you with as much information as possible on this website. However, to answer all your potential questions beforehand seems nearly impossible. So, if there’s anything more you would like to know about my methods, services, or me, I strongly encourage you to contact me with your inquiries. I will be more than happy to provide you with all the information you want.
